"Sevens see the world as their playground, and they are happiest when they are on the move, enjoying life."
-Suzanne Stabile

Brief Overview

  • Sevens want to experience all the good things life has to offer.
  • They run away from pain and sadness and negative emotions because it makes them feel trapped and afraid.
  • Sevens operate with a half range of emotions, the happy half, so too much emotional processing or negativity will wear on them. But if Sevens are diligent in sitting with the unhappy sometimes, they’ll learn vital coping skills for dealing with life instead of constantly reframing.
  • Their energy will be an asset in a relationship, and they’ll keep things fun and enthusiastic.
  • Sevens need to be aware that other people have different needs, and they aren’t always that fun. 

In Relationship

  • Sevens enjoy keeping their options open. There might be someone more fun around the corner!
  • They need relationships with people they can make happy. This isn't even an optional thing.
  • Sevens are very loyal once they finally commit.
  • They don't enjoy processing emotions, especially painful ones, and they often don't possess the skills to do it well.
  • Sevens will offer the gift of positivity and enthusiasm in relationships.
  • They can make every day an adventure and something fun.
  • Sevens get to experience two days every day: their own and yours! 

Aggressive Stance

Stances are formed by which of the centers of intelligence is repressed. For Sevens, it is feeling. ​
Sevens only operate out of the positive side of emotions. They easily access joy, excitement, passion, happiness, and enthusiasm. They have the gift and curse of reframing every situation into something positive. But because of this, Sevens lack vital coping skills for what they can't reframe: grief, pain, or loss. The unhappiest number is a Seven that can't reframe.